57% of college students report it is difficult to identify dating violence. #ThatsNotLove defines the gray area between love and control, so you know relationship abuse when it happens and before it escalates.


Feeling trapped in the Love Labyrinth is a very real and frightening symptom of relationship abuse. One way out is awareness.


Read the fine print. If your partner uses phrases like, “I love you” or “I’m sorry” to manipulate a situation, #thatsnotlove.


Our Couplets define the difference between a good relationship and an unhealthy one. If you see three or more of these warning signs in your relationship, it’s a problem. Don’t be ashamed to tell someone when #thatsnotlove

Because I Love You

Such a simple phrase can take on a different meaning in an unhealthy relationship; escalating from a statement of care to one of control. Learn more about controlling statements and how you can empower your friends to make a difference.

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